Mothers are blessings and fathers....? |
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Recently on 16th June, I've encountered a few scenarios in which children had even forgotten the Father's Day. They were indulged in certain other activities, which would have been more important I guess. They ain't a special faction of children or independent ones but are among us all. I agree when a woman conceives and ultimately becomes a mother, she is a totally transformed person. From the first day of her motherhood, her individual needs, her future and her success become secondary to her. She devoted herself to the needs and demands of her offspring. Simultaneously, father's responsibilities have been increased. He too puts everything aside and burns midnight oil to fulfil his offspring's needs and wants. He's the best listener and best protector of the family, the bias and fair family member. He's the one who quits all of his bad habits just because he don't wanna see his children being affected by his habits. The mother teaches her baby the first lessons about love, care and establishes an emotional and spiritual bond. Whist, a father teaches his baby the importance of respect, integrity, commitment and self-confidence. He don't move deep into sentiments but supports his baby throughout. The love of mother and father together overcomes obstacles; it does not diminish as the child grows, In fact, it remains intact forever. They together are able to put up with the problems that their sons and daughters create when they are in their teens because of their love and desire to help them grow up. According to Islamic community, paradise is situated under mother's feet and the gateway leading to paradise is the father. A mother's love is often sacrificial. But caring fathers too give endless attention and care to their children. They are always trying to fulfil the bottomless list of their child's wishes. They value the needs of their children above their owns. A mother takes the baby in her womb for 9 months but the father takes care of the baby for rest of the life.Where a loving mother gives up her right to sleep or even to eat during mealtimes just to make sure her baby's alright or he stops crying. At the same time, father's working at night and leaving his meals to work hard and earn for his growing baby, so that he won't be lacking anything. When baby's sick, mother stays up all night to nurse him and father's also awake either by asking the doctor to pay a house all or by being doctor himself. The love of a father is an invaluable asset. With love, a father raises his children to adulthood and helps them to be responsible citizens for society. He builds up his children's character and stimulates his values, so that he would be a better person. A famous saying states "A father is neither an anchor to hold us back, nor a sail to take us there, but always a guiding light whose love shows us the ways". This says it all. To end up, I love my parents, my mom and my dad both. Whatever I'm today is because of their mutual contribution. Both are a blessing to me. I'm glad to say I'm blessed. My prime objective was not to distract you from maternal love, but to attract you towards paternal love as well. Keep loving your parents and follow me for such more inspiring facts. Thank you.
Exactly. Fathers worth as much as mothers. Greatly inspired.
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ReplyDeleteMy siblings too forgot Fathers' Day. Shame on us!
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